marriage contract – Toronto Family Law Blog Canada https://torontofamilylawblog.ca With Jennifer Samara Shuber, LSUC Mon, 17 Jul 2017 19:19:56 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.6 Protecting Gifts and Inheritances in Family Law https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/protecting-gifts-inheritances-family-law/ Thu, 11 May 2017 14:09:39 +0000 https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/?p=6294   In Ontario, marriages are deemed to be a form of economic partnership. As such, at the end of the marriage, under Ontario law, the spouses have a right to share in the wealth generated during the marriage. This is accomplished by a process called equalization under the Family Law Act (“FLA”). Equalization is a...

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In Ontario, marriages are deemed to be a form of economic partnership. As such, at the end of the marriage, under Ontario law, the spouses have a right to share in the wealth generated during the marriage. This is accomplished by a process called equalization under the Family Law Act (“FLA”).

Equalization is a sharing of wealth, or the growth in value of assets, but not the assets themselves. Nothing changes ownership nor do spouses acquire an ownership interest in each other’s assets simply by virtue of the marriage.

The first step in the equalization processes is to determine what each spouse owned and what liabilities each spouse had at the date of marriage and the date of separation. This calculation results in the determination of each spouse’s net worth or, as the FLA calls it, net family property. The equalization payment is half the difference between the spouses’ respective net family properties.

The FLA permits spouses to exclude the value of certain assets or categories of assets from their net family property and, hence, from sharing in the equalization process. One particular set of excluded assets is gifts or inheritances (other than a matrimonial home) received from third parties during the marriage and any property, other than the matrimonial home, into which the excluded property can be traced. In this article, I will deal with gifts or inheritances received during the marriage and address how parties can ensure and preserve their excluded status.

Obviously, tracing implies that there must be a further asset into which the gift or inheritance is deposited. Gifts or inheritances used to pay expenses will not be excluded as there is no existing asset into which the funds can be traced.

The FLA is explicit in its special treatment of the matrimonial home: gifts or inheritances used to purchase or improve a matrimonial home are lost. So is a gifted or inherited property which becomes a matrimonial home. Plain and simple. No tracing, no excuses – only a marriage contract could have prevented this result.

Similarly, if gifts or inheritances are used to purchase family assets, these assets are not excluded. Where the couple decided they needed and the husband purchased a television set, a dining room suite and other items with his inheritance, these items could not be excluded.

The first tracing case is a straightforward one. Husband inherits $100,000 from his father. He puts the funds in a separate bank account which he opens for this purpose. At the date of separation, the $100,000 has increased to $200,000. Husband is entitled to exclude the entire $200,000 from his net family property.

However, parties rarely keep the gift or inheritance in a separate, sole account. That is just not the way life, or families, work. Spouses regularly mix excluded assets with other family assets or use excluded assets in order to purchase other property during the marriage. The case law has, therefore, had to deal with a variety of scenarios where the gift or inheritance is either co-mingled with other assets and/or converted to other property. The task of tracing the excluded property so that the spouse can benefit from the exclusion provisions of the FLA is a complicated one which has occupied much of the court’s time.

There is, unfortunately, no clear rule for how to trace excluded property. Ontario courts have applied a variety of tracing methods, including the “first in, first out” principle and the pro rata approach (the pari passu ex post facto approach). More recently, the courts seem to have abandoned a strict, single doctrine approach to tracing in favor of using any method which would yield a just and equitable result. This common sense approach to tracing leads the court to what most would consider to be a reasonable result.

What if the husband above deposits the inherited $100,000 into a brand new joint account with wife which contains no other monies? The account is worth $200,000 on the date of separation. Can husband exclude the entire $200,000? No. The law says that, having put the funds in joint names, assumes that the monies are joint. Hence, only $100,000 of the $200,000 belongs to the husband, which he can exclude for equalization purposes. But what about the wife’s $100,000? Is she entitled to deduct her $100,000 share from her NFP? No. Since the monies were a gift from husband during the marriage, and not a third party as the FLA requires, the wife’s $100,000 will be shared with the husband in the equalization calculation.

Consider the case where husband inherits $100,000 and puts it into an investment account in his sole name which already contained $50,000. On separation, there is $250,000 in the account. What can the husband exclude? Using the common sense approach employed in the current case law, the husband would likely be able to exclude 2/3 of the $250,000 or $166,666.66. That is because the inherited $100,000 made up 2/3 of the investment account when it was deposited and, hence, husband should be able to exclude 2/3 of the current value of the investment account.

The same principle would apply, I suggest, when monies go in and out of an account over time. For example, how much money should be excluded in the following scenario:

$50,000      investment account balance January 5
$150,000    investment account balance January 15 as $100,000 inheritance deposited
$125,000    investment account balance at date of separation
$25,000 loss since January 15

Husband can exclude 2/3 of $125,000 or $83,333.33. Unless, for example, husband can show (trace) that the initial $50,000 was used to buy the losing stock and his $100,000 was invested in something that did not lose money. In that case, husband should be able to exclude $100,000.

What if husband borrows $50,000 from his father to buy a car in January and when his father dies, the loan is forgiven? Can the husband exclude any portion of the value of the car? No. Husband already owned the car when he received the “gift” of the loan being forgiven. The car was purchased with borrowed money, not with a gift or inheritance, hence it does not qualify as excluded property.

It has been held that repayment of a debt does not qualify for exclusion. Husband owns a property on the date of marriage free and clear. He later mortgages it. Husband then inherits money which he uses to pay off the mortgage. Can any of the property be excluded? No. The paying off of the mortgage was held to be the payment of a debt i.e. the inheritance was used to pay off the mortgage and did not constitute the property itself, so the exclusion was not allowed.

Courts have gone the other way, however, when the facts are just slightly different. Say the husband had inherited $50,000 which he invested in a fixed term investment. Husband borrows $50,000 from Joe to buy a car and when the investment comes due, he repays Joe. Husband’s car in that case was considered excluded property. The court’s reasoning was somewhat convoluted, but perhaps it comes down to timing: in this case, husband already had the inheritance which could then easily be traced into the car.

Given the lack of a bright line rule, the smartest approach to the protection of gifts and inheritances is a marriage contract. Having the spouses confirm the excluded nature of certain funds or assets in a contract is really the only way to guarantee their status upon separation. Family law specialists prepare such limited issue agreements all of the time. These specialists are also well placed to advise clients on how to approach the contract issue, which can be a sensitive one, with the other spouse.

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Relationship Tips: Talk, Listen and Love https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/relationship-tips-talk-listen-love/ Thu, 09 Mar 2017 19:56:51 +0000 https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/?p=6273 I was watching a rerun of “Modern Family” the other night.  In the episode, Phil learns a neighbour’s wife has left him.  Phil tells the viewer that he hopes it is due to an affair or drugs and alcohol, because those he can protect against.  Unfortunately for Phil, the neighbour tells him that he has...

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I was watching a rerun of “Modern Family” the other night.  In the episode, Phil learns a neighbour’s wife has left him.  Phil tells the viewer that he hopes it is due to an affair or drugs and alcohol, because those he can protect against.  Unfortunately for Phil, the neighbour tells him that he has no idea why his wife left.  This makes Phil anxious because he thinks there is no way for him to safeguard his marriage against the unknown.

This got me thinking.  I am trained as a social worker and a lawyer, so this may be a more “social worky” than legal post.  But the t.v. show got me wondering about whether I had any advice for people who want to stay married, based on the experience I have had with parties getting divorced.  So here goes.

Talk to each other.  This is possibly the most important piece of advice I could give.    Many of my clients complain that they just stopped talking and grew apart as a result.  Share yourself with your partner.  Talk about your day, your life, your goals, your dreams, your frustrations.  You used to talk for hours when you were dating, remember? Don’t allow that to stop because you are married.

Following a close second is listen to each other.  Be an active listener.  When you converse, consider what your spouse is actually saying.  Be present and think about what is being communicated.  And be honest in your responses.

This is especially important in times of conflict.  Don’t jump to respond or defend yourself.  Hear your spouse out.  Let him or her express what they need to convey before you share your thoughts and feelings.  Being right is not important.  What is important is a resolution you can both live with.

Third, fight fair.  Stay in the moment and don’t dredge up the past.  Be specific.  Avoid general  statements like “You always” or “You never…”  They do not help resolve the problem.

Make time for each other is my fourth recommendation.  Otherwise you will look up, years will have passed and you will no longer have a partner but a room-mate.  Life is busy.  Schedule regular partner time.  Commit to it.  Do things together.  Remind yourself why you fell in love with this person to begin with.  And let your partner know the many new reasons you continue to adore him or her to this day.

Finally, share the crummy tasks.  This may sound silly, but clients tell me they hated being the one who always had to do the dirty work: disciplining the children, taking out the garbage, doing the laundry and dishes, etc.  Find out what tasks your spouse considers unpleasant, or a burden, and do them at least some of the time.  You will be amazed at the positive feedback that engenders.   Be part of the team.  Isn’t that part of why you wanted to be in a relationship in the first place?

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See Spot Divorce: Who Gets the Family Dog? https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/see-spot-divorce-gets-family-dog/ Thu, 15 Dec 2016 19:57:23 +0000 https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/?p=6248 “The dog is man’s best friend.” (Ogden Nash)“ “The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs.” (Charles de Gaulle) “Once you have had a wonderful dog, a life without one, is a life diminished.”(Dean Koontz) People love their dogs. Dogs are treasured members of the family. Some people even...

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“The dog is man’s best friend.” (Ogden Nash)“

“The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs.” (Charles de Gaulle)

“Once you have had a wonderful dog, a life without one, is a life diminished.”(Dean Koontz)

People love their dogs. Dogs are treasured members of the family. Some people even treat their dogs like their children – or better.  When a couple breaks up, a decision needs to be made about the family dog. How is this determination made? Is it based on best interest like a child custody decision?  Or is a dog just another piece of property?  

Much to the surprise of dog lovers across this country, dogs are not human and, hence, the court will not deal with “custody” of the dog per se.  As much as individual judges may adore their dogs, and even imbue them with human characteristics, the law does not share this view.   Rather, dogs (like other pets) are considered personal property.  Which means that, if the parties cannot agree on who gets the dog, and the court has to make a determination, the decision is based on traditional concepts of ownership.  The relationship of love and affection between each party and the dog is not relevant in determining ownership, nor is the dog’s best interests.

Who gets the dog is based solely on who owns the dog i.e. who bought and paid for the dog.  If someone enters the relationship with a dog, the dog leaves the relationship with that party. If the dog is purchased during the relationship, then whoever paid for the dog keeps the dog. 

I don’t know what would happen if the dog was owned jointly, for example, if the money for the dog came from a joint account or the dog’s registration papers were in joint names. I haven’t come across a case that dealt with this issue.  Perhaps parties would be granted shared ownership of the dog?  I have seen separation agreements that deal with family pets, but I have yet to see a marriage contract do so.  Theoretically, a marriage contract could deal with the ownership of the dog since, in the eyes of the law, a dog is just like any other property that parties can contract about.

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Contract is Not a Four Letter Word https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/contract-not-four-letter-word/ Thu, 29 Sep 2016 18:51:12 +0000 https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/?p=6218 A domestic contract, such as a marriage contract, is simply a way for parties to get what they want rather than what the law might dictate. Free choice and self direction are good things, in my opinion. But the person who proposes such a contract is criticized for wishing the end of the relationship before...

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A domestic contract, such as a marriage contract, is simply a way for parties to get what they want rather than what the law might dictate. Free choice and self direction are good things, in my opinion. But the person who proposes such a contract is criticized for wishing the end of the relationship before it has begun.

Contracts are not romantic, that is true. Neither are most of the other preparations we engage in for a wedding. Hiring an officiant isn’t sexy. Neither is paying the deposit on the hall or listening to bands audition. We do it anyway, getting on with the practical tasks at hand so that the wedding can go off without a hitch.

Look at a marriage contract as just another step in preparation for the wedding and the marriage. Meet with a family lawyer for an hour. Get an education in what Ontario law will mandate once you and your partner enter into the legal relationship that is marriage. Find out whether or not you actually need or want a contract. You might not.

What you don’t know can hurt you in this case. Or, at the very least, what you don’t know about the law could result in a very unhappy spouse in the event of marriage breakdown. Don’t you want to be an informed consumer? Wouldn’t you rather decide ahead of time who gets what and how? I know I would.

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Do you need a marriage contract? https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/need-marriage-contract/ Wed, 01 Jun 2016 17:58:03 +0000 https://torontofamilylawblog.ca/?p=6158 June is upon us. I understand from Modern Bride magazine that June is the most popular month for weddings. Unfortunately, it is not the most popular month for marriage contracts. But why? These two should go hand in hand but most couples still marry without a marriage contract. WHY? I find it is because people...

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June is upon us. I understand from Modern Bride magazine that June is the most popular month for weddings. Unfortunately, it is not the most popular month for marriage contracts. But why? These two should go hand in hand but most couples still marry without a marriage contract.

WHY? I find it is because people are not aware of the fact that marriage is a legal relationship. If they are, most do not want to think about its implications. The Family Law Act applies as soon as you say “I do”.

You should be saying “I don’t” unless you know the answers to the following questions:
1. What is your net worth?
2. What does your fiancé(e) earn?
3. What is his or her net worth?
4. If one of you owns a home where you plan to reside once married, is that person prepared to share its value in the event of a future separation?
5. Is common law marriage the same as legal marriage?

At least 8 months before the wedding, take the time to either read up on the above or, better yet, arrange a consultation with a family law specialist. The lawyer will walk you through how the law applies to your particular situation. Only then can you decide whether or not you think a marriage contract would be a good idea in your unique circumstances. Seeing a lawyer might not be the most romantic part of the wedding planning, but it could end up being the most useful. You won’t ever regret the hour or so you spend learning about family law. It could make the difference between an amicable and a litigated separation down the road.

You might need a marriage contract if:
1. One of you owns a home
2. There are children from a previous relationship
3. There are financial obligations to a former spouse
4. You have assets you want to protect from sharing upon marriage breakdown
5. It is a second marriage

Get legal advice. Then go and choose the dress, the rings and the band.

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